Blog posts on college admissions by Arjun Seth
For parents who wish to leave no stone unturned
Parents often feel they must hurry through their child’s milestones, filling every moment with preparation and planning. But rushing doesn’t create success; it creates stress. As the discussion wound down, I could sense their perspective softening. They started to see that their daughter’s school wasn’t the problem. The real challenge was learning to trust the process and that actual growth in a student requires time, patience, and space for self-discovery.
Be a Rolls Royce, not a Mahindra Thar
Today I had the pleasure of meeting a young man who shared the most inspiring story of transformation. I was meeting him after 2 years and barely recognized him. As he spoke, I was struck by his determination to deal with teenage obesity. It’s rare to see someone take charge of their life with such a balance of passion and unwavering commitment. He expressed himself with such clarity and enthusiasm. I’m left inspired not just by the physical transformation he achieved but by the resolve with which he approached his journey. His story is a reminder of the power of self-discipline and the remarkable changes we can bring about when we prioritise and align our actions with our aspirations.
Making the Most of Your First Year in College: Discover, Explore, and Thrive
Your first year of college is a unique opportunity to relax, have fun, and explore the vast array of experiences and opportunities available to you. By being your personal best, expanding your network, making smart decisions, and embracing risk-taking, you'll embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery. Remember to cultivate patience, develop a plan that includes places, people, and patience, and allow yourself to adapt and grow throughout the process. Embrace the challenges and uncertainties of college life, and you'll leave with not just a degree, but also a deep understanding of what brings you happiness and fulfillment. Enjoy every minute of this exciting chapter in your life, and make the most of your college experience!
Why Honesty Matters in College
College is a time of self-discovery and growth, and the choices you make during this period can have long-lasting effects. Engaging in deceit, betrayal, manipulation, back-biting, or hypocrisy may seem tempting, but the consequences far outweigh the temporary gains. By valuing honesty and integrity, you cultivate a positive reputation, build strong relationships, and develop a solid foundation for future success. So, as you embark on your college journey, remember that true achievement is not measured by what you get away with but by the principles you uphold.
Breaking Free from the Weight of Expectations
As high school graduates prepare for life at college, it is crucial to take a step back and critically examine the narrative that has shaped our lives.
In the journey toward college, many high school graduates are burdened by the weight of their own stories. From an early age, we absorb societal expectations and the desires of our parents, which become integral parts of our story. We are told who we should be, how we should act, what we should desire, and what we should fear. These ideas permeate our subconscious, shaping our decisions, self-perception, behavior, and aspirations. However, it is important to question whether these expectations truly align with our authentic selves and our individual passions and aspirations. This article will explore the consequences of taking our story too seriously and discuss how embracing authenticity can lead to a more fulfilling college experience and a sense of personal liberation.
How to overcome the fear of failure
Fear of failure is an emotion that arises from losing something we cling to. When we constantly think about achieving a particular outcome or have a deep-seated desire for something, we can become afraid of not getting it. This fear can be particularly strong when we feel like our future success depends on achieving a particular outcome, such as getting into a dream school.
The fear of disappointing others can be a significant contributor to this fear, especially in high-stress situations such as college admissions. Social pressure and the need to maintain a particular image can also create fear of failure. However, this fear can create a lot of stress and anxiety, making it harder to achieve our goals.
It's essential to remember that setbacks can provide valuable opportunities for growth and development. By focusing on the process of achieving our goals rather than just the outcome, we can reduce the fear of failure and increase our chances of success. As the saying goes, "Either we win, or we learn."
